Wednesday, May 31, 2006

Here is the floor plan!

Everyone has been asking what the floor plan for the house is, so here it is. This is the rendition I did in my software program, not what the architect has drawn up, which looks much better. The overall plan may look simple, but I've spent nearly 1.5 years working on this layout. Note the colored areas above the garage represent the recording studio, with the 14x20 main room, 11x10 drum room, and 6 x 10 amp room which uses iso cabs and also serves as a big walk in closet.

What isn't readily apparent is the 14x20 covered patio that is off of the living room which is where I'm sure a lot of grillin' out is going to be done! I was going to put in a pool, but everyone I've talked to said, don't do that. So, I didn't. There is the 4th bedroom downstairs, which is where the billiards table is going!

Tuesday, May 30, 2006

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Watching the Glenn Beck tv program on the large tv in my gf's living room. Most people would want to watch sports on a 62'; HDTV. Me? I choose to watch a talk radio host. I find it fascinating! Don't

forget to listen to the mp3 file in the post below this!

Fun with numbers.

This is something Jeff, J-mo and I have talked about many times. One thing the three of us have in common (aside from being thin, neat, and single, not that there's anything wrong with that) is, we are all in our 30's and have no children, that we know of.

I am 31 years old. If I got my girlfriend pregnant today, I would be 32 years old when the baby was born. I would be 50 when it graduated high school. If the child waited to get married like I have, I may be in my mid-60's when the wedding happens. Then if they have kids, I'll be like 80 when my grandchildren graduate high school. Wow that's frightening.

It does concern me that I'd be "an old man" when my kids are doing all the "fun kid stuff". Would I be able to keep up? On Saturday when Jeff and I were running around Wilson Morgan, he was talking about his 10K run last weekend, and how there were guys in their 60's running that thing. I wonder if I'll have that much endurance when I'm 60. I doubt it. I'm not training to be a runner, you know?

I heard this call and I want it to be us
Today on the Dave Ramsey show, a couple (Carolyn 26 and Chris 29) from Huntsville Alabama called in who went to the 2004 event at Whitesburg Baptist (The same one I went to) and shared their success story. This is what I dream of for our family. We have the ability to do this! To be totally debt free!

This is a very inspiring 5 minute phone call, listen to it here in mp3 form.

Over The Hedge
We went to see this yesterday at the new Rave Theater in Jones Valley. The movie was pretty good and the theater was spectacular. The stadium seating was plush and comfy. Best thing was, the arm rest in between the seats folded up.

My favorite part of going to the movies, isn't the movie itself, but rather, watching the people in line fritter away their money on concession stand food. (The 3 of us ate a sizeable (and delicious) meal at McAlister's Deli before hand for $13) I noticed that the theater had "Value meal" style menu packages, but they really weren't much of a value. The #1 combo was a bucket of popcorn and 2 drinks for $12.75.

Do movie theater food salespeople have any idea what the prices of these items are everywhere else in the world? I can go to Wal-Mart (as much as I hate that) and get enough popcorn and drinks to last two months at that price. I know I know, it's all about the experience.

The Tempurpedic Swedish Mattress
After the movie, we went furniture shopping. One of the stops was at Brookstone to check out those Tempurpedic mattresses. She wants one. I'm not so sure I want one. We tried out a Simmons mattress at Ashley furniture that I thought was really comfortable. By the time you put the entire mattress system together, you are literally about 4 feet in the air. You need a small stepping block to actually get up and into the bed. Good luck to you if you happen to roll over and fall out of bed. You'll probably die from the fall.

On Sundays, I go to open houses around town, and I've noticed that some people's beds are even higher than that. Who wants to have a bed that you have to actually climb into? I much prefer to simply walk over by it, and fall over on it. As opposed to, walking over, climbing up a small ladder, and then lying down. That just makes no sense to me. A bed is suppose to be for relaxing, not a chore to get into. I don't want to climb mountains for the love of Pete!

We've both agreed we want to upgrade from a queen sized mattress to a king sized mattress. When we were trying them out, it was like she was waaaaaay over there. Wow a king sized mattress is large (and freakin' expensive at some $2,000)!

Saturday, May 27, 2006

One Hot Day

Quite the exhausting day. My morning got started with a trip to the gym around 8:30 AM. Came home and ate 1/2 a Raspberry Pop Tart, a handful of Cheetos, and a glass of Orange Juice. Delicious and Nutritious!

Worked on music stuff most of the morning and then met Jawana up at Big Bob's BBQ for some lunch. She picked up the tab. Thanks sweetie!

I came home and finished up Larue's Drum Clinic video from December 2005 and then headed out to Point Mallard to film some of the church band playing. As noted in the audio blog, things were a little rough soundwise. I couldn't even hear J-mo's toms. They were non-existant in the mix. Too much overpowering bass, and the guitars seemed underpowered and thin or something. I dunno. It was weird.

After that I came home and watched part of the Dream Theater Budokan DVD and then passed out on the couch for a bit. Met up with Jeff at Wilson Morgan for some fun tennis. It was scorchin'. Got cleaned up and hooked up with Jawana and Shayla at Arby's. Wow she was lookin' hot tonight. She picked up the tab for dinner. Thanks baby!

As the pix below show, we went to the festival at Point Mallard tonight. Stopped in to see The Playboy, since he was working. Ran into other folks all around too. It was super messy out there because of the rain. Bummer. Kind of detracted from the overall fun factor, but still, I had a good time hanging out with Jawana and Shayla. I guess you could refer to this as our first family outing. lol Pix forthcoming when I get them... Oh thanks honey for picking up the food and ride tab at the festival too. No, I didn't lose my wallet or file for bankruptcy... I just have an awesome girlfriend!

Today was a great day.

Being with her, always makes it a great day for me.

It's 9:52 PM on a Saturday night, and I'm going to bed. Yep, I'm old.

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Friday, May 26, 2006

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Thursday, May 25, 2006

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Biopsy.

That's never a fun word. Today I was at my dermatologist for the yearly look over, and he spotted a mole that was 'suspicious'. Great. So I ended up having an unplanned minor surgical procedure this morning.

Every time I am around hospitals, or being cut on, I have to stop and think, "Dude, what were you thinking 8 years ago when you were starting pre-med?" As most of you know, I had a stint (no pun intended) where I didn't know what I wanted to do with my life and thought that going into the professional medical field was the answer. The one small problem with that line of thinking was, I don't do well around needles and blood... and, these seem to be two of the more common elements to the medical practice. Like today, when I was getting the local anesthesia, I thought I was going to die as I laid there on my stomach. Then, the cutting started and I thought I was going to pass out. Good Lord, that just grosses me out. I'm getting weak in the knees and fingers just typing about it.

The other main reason I dropped out of the medical program was because of a not-so-fun class called, "Organic Chemistry". I'll let you in on a sick little secret though… from time to time, I will randomly get out my Organic Chemistry book and just read part of it for fun. Actually, I've noticed that I tend to do that sometimes. I go through phases of just reading text books, in particular engineering text books that I have. Yeah, I know that's really disturbing, but a lot of that stuff I find interesting. Particularly the materials engineering books that deal with material microstructure. Fascinating!

Here's a not-so interesting fact about me: At my parents house I have nearly every text book from 9th grade all the way through grad school.

Which do you prefer, top, bottom, or side by side?
One of my primary goals in the home-building process was to furnish it with all new stuff: Especially, a new master bedroom suite (because I still sleep on the one that I've had since I was 14)

However, I've realized that due to the unexpected floor plan oversizing, the furnishing will not commence immediately upon construction completion. Now I plan to work on one room at a time until they are all complete. I estimate it may be 6-8 months after construction is complete before the house is fully furnished, unless my friends are mega-generous with the house warming gifts or we win the powerball between now and then.

It's weird though, because oddly, about that time, which is 10-12 months from now it's probable that some sort of change in status may occur and I may not need to buy everything I think I need/want at this present juncture. What's the point in having two 62" HD TVs? You know?

Anyways, part of this adventure includes picking out a refrigerator. In looking at all the different types, I've noticed there are the traditional top and bottom models with the freezer on top, but there is also a new kind with the freezer on the bottom. My parents have the traditional kind. My girlfriend has the side by side type, and that's the kind she wants me to get.

Lately, I am gravitating towards less complex items. For instance, some of the side-by-side refrigerators I've seen are $2,500. When I open them up, all I see along the upper inner door face is an 18" row of digital readouts and computer type buttons. When I see that all I think is, "There's a lot there that can break, go wrong, and be costly to repair." Hence I'm not buying a $2,500 refrigerator and looking for a less costly model.

Then there's the whole issue of the in-door ice and water dispenser. I've never had that in my life, so I don't miss it or see any need for it. It just seems like something else that could break. Of course, I don't spend any time in the kitchen, so if Jawana says that it'll make life easier, I guess that's probably the way to go.

Do you have the in-door system going on? Do you use it? Had problems with it? Curious.

Along those same lines… I was all about those new colorful Kennmore front loading washers and dryers. That is, until I heard one of the SEARS technicians call into Clark Howard and inform us that it costs on average 3x to repair those models, and that they have a high failure rate. When you combine that with that fact that are quite costly to begin with, I'm getting just a plain old fashioned top loading washer and front loading dryer combo.

Really bad financial moves.
Call after call today into Dave's show were from couples making good money ($100,000+) who had leased vehicles, and rolled negative equity into them.

Wow, what a horrible mismanagement of money. I'm thinking, "If you're making that much money, why are you leasing a vehicle? Even worse, why are you buying a new car?" That's a rhetorical question. I know the answer: because they don't know any better, and were misled by car salesmen. Leasing a vehicle and/or buying a new vehicle is about the equivalent of purchasing whole-life, cash value life insurance. It's just a bad all around plan that does a severe injustice to the consumer.

Remember the mantra of the middle class is, "I'll always have a car payment." This is what we don't want to be. . . middle class . . . average. You must strive to be above average!

The average car payment in America is $500/month. If you falsely believe you must always have a car payment, consider this. If you get your first car payment at age 20 and maintain car payments all your life until you are 60, that equals $745,000 you've spent on your cars at a 5% loan interest rate.

Now, if you take that same $500/month and invest it in a good set of mutual funds averaging 12% over those same 40 years, you'd have $4.9 million dollars when you are 60.

I'll take the $4.9 million, and drive used, reasonably priced vehicles thank you very much.

Most importantly, don't be mistaken. The $4.9 million isn't for me. It's for my kids, family, and favorite charities.

Life is short. Be smart.

SOUL PATROL BABY.
There's something I bet all of you thought I would never say. And that is, something relevant to modern pop culture. Indeed, Jawana has gotten me in to that TV show American Idol. Go Taylor! Wooooooo!

Last night's season finale' was something else, wasn't it? I personally enjoyed the little awards play on the Emmy's they did. The clips were hilarious. My favorite was the one between master chef Wolfgang Puck and Kellie Pickler. Good Heaven's is it possible to be more country-fied?

I'll tell you, one moment that was a little frightening was when Michael Sandecki came out and was all "Clay Aiken" and then when Clay actually came out and Michael began freaking out like a little girl . . . that was disturbing. But whatever.

Oh, I'll tell you what else was incredibly wrong. The short they did called, "Brokenote Mountain". -THAT- was wrong. LOL

Blasphemy against the Moulton Steakhouse
Last night, I thought it would be a good idea to take my girlfriend to the Moulton Steakhouse. It's literally a legend in North Alabama for having some of the best steaks around. My friends and I have been eating there for years and have always had good food there.

She ordered the Top Sirloin, and I ordered a Regular Sirloin, because we were unsure as to exactly what the difference was. The food came out, and I immediately began devouring mine, because I was hungry. It was delicious, as always. She offered me a piece of hers and it tasted ok to me. So she proceeded to eat it, but then said something to the effect of, "I don't like the way this steak tastes. I don't know if it's the seasoning or what, but it doesn't taste good."

So I'm sitting there and am like, "Are you on crack or what? I just ate a piece and it tasted fine to me…. I can't believe you don't like it."

I continued to finish up mine. Shayla wanted to eat my fries, so I let her do that, and Jawana gave me the rest of her steak. I proceeded to eat it and was like, "Oh my God, this steak tastes like a piece of. . . Uhhh . . . It's nasty. No wonder you didn't like it." I'm not sure what the problem was, but it was disgusting.

My streak of picking out restaurants is continuing to go downhill...

Cracker Barrell – 2-day old mac and cheese
Logan's – wet grilled cheese
Famous Dave's – greasy hamburger
Applebee's – jacked up nachos
Moulton Steakhosue – steak that tasted like crap

Wednesday, May 24, 2006

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The breakfast of champions. 12 Krispy Kreme donuts and a large mountain dew. I have my doctor's appt in a couple hours. Hope all goes well....

Tuesday, May 23, 2006

I love food.

Yesterday, no doubt following a laborious day at work, my girlfriend took time (as I was out mowing the lot, which will soon be a construction zone) to cook a delicious dinner: chicken, mashed potatoes, mac & cheese, and my new favorite, croissant rolls with homemade sweet tea to drink. She was still in her work clothes scurrying about the kitchen when I got home.

She wouldn't let me help. I felt like such a bum sitting there on the couch watching the Dallas/San Antonio game. Now, I don't know the first thing about cooking, but I just wanted to help her out. You know? Set the table, pour the drinks… something. But she like wouldn't let me. I don't know if she was afraid I'd break something, or if she was just being all independent... I just don't want her, to feel like she's the one doing everything. You know, I don't want this to ever happen:

"All you do is sit there on the couch, drink beer, and watch tv.. while I'm over here slaving away: cooking, cleaning, and watching the kids. Why don't you get off your fat keester and do some work and help out around the house?"

Because, I appreciate everything she does, so much and I hope I make that really clear to her and she understands that I do.

I'll tell you what else amazes me…
Amateur video camera operators. With the proliferation of 'affordable' video cameras, we have a new wave of people who are experiencing the joys of recording the family vacation. Unfortunately, as I witnessed last night, good video skills are not inherent in human beings. It is a skill that must be learned. The first principle is, ZOOM OUT!

Case and point, we were watching DVDs from their recent family trip to Disney World. Numerous zoom-fouls were occurring before my eyes. The worst was when they were on some kind of tram or trolley and were going through a green house type place. The camera was zoomed in like 500x and so everything was flying by at 80 mph, even though they were really only going about 10 mph. Talk about motion sickness… I think Jeff learned about that on our first trip to Gulf Shores when he was filming the US Alabama as I was driving, and he was zoomed in waaaaaay to close.

The second principle is, always use two hands when shooting footage. It helps keep the camera steady and makes tracking motion much easier and smoother. Believe me, when you're watching videos on a 62" tv, every mistake becomes so much more apparent.

Third, and this is sometimes the most difficult one… but if you've got the camera, you generally want to be in front of the people you are filming. 99% of the time you want people walking towards you so you can see their faces, not the backs of their heads. Not interesting. This means you have to be thinking ahead about where and what you are shooting and what you want in the final video.

Let's talk about Disney World
Maybe this is the cynic in me… ok, I know this is the cynic in me… but how in the world is it possible to have fun at a place like Disney World? We're sitting there watching these videos, and ok, yeah, so Shayla was enjoying it… but she's seven years old and is all about Disney characters. Me, I am 31 and don't know anything about any of the Disney stories... and we just filmed "The Story of Cinderella" over the weekend.

Jawana was saying one of their days started at 6 AM and didn't get over until close to midnight. Now, I don't know about you, but walking around a theme park packed with people and waiting in lines to eat food and ride rides for some 18 hours is not my idea of a good time. First of all, getting up at 6:00 to do anything is not my idea of a good time. With the exception of stuff in Hawaii because there is a 4 hour time difference, and getting up at 6:00 AM over there is like getting up at 10:00 AM in Central time, which I can handle.

Honey if you're reading this, please don't think I'm not game for going to such a place like Disney World, but these are just the thoughts that were running through my mind last night as we were sitting there. Obviously, if our kids want to go there, we'll go.

Monday, May 22, 2006

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This is from my Hawaii trip in Nov 05. We're on top of Diamond Head overlooking bustling Waikiki. I can't wait to take Jawana there for a vacation. Gotta save up the money and vacation time... I

believe she still wants to go there and the bahamas too.

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It is official. I have just spoiled my lunch by eating some girl scout cookies. I love Samoas!

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Wooooo! New desktop wall paper at work! Sweet.

Sunday, May 21, 2006

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Here's something you don't see everyday... I ate at a buffet.

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Tag and Jawana selling videos.

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J-mo ready for the shoot today.

Saturday, May 20, 2006

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There's my baby! We were eating at Jeminson's on the river this afternoon in between filming the dance recitals. It's a long day, but I'm glad she's here with me. J-mo and Tag are here working too.

Fun stuff. Only 6 hours to go!
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Thursday, May 18, 2006

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Rubberwood chocolate bfast. 298, 599

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I love it when people leave or retire because we get cake and ice cream. Fun times. I love my job. It's almost nap time. My workload has skyrocketed, I got approval to work credit hours/overtime this

morning. I need the extra money and vacation time.

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It's a good thing Jawana gave me 2 boxes of Samoas 'cause I am running low on food at work. (thanks honey!) Almost time to make that dreaded trip to Wal-Mart. You know, I need a small refrig at work.

Ok I am hungry now, time for breakfast and caffeine.

Wednesday, May 17, 2006

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CONGRATULATIONS!

To my work friend Christi on her engagement. It's spring and love is definitely in the air!

Ok, so now everyone knows
that I am building my first home. There is no doubt that this will be quite the adventure. It's probably a good thing I'm easy-going because I've heard a lot of horror stories about having a custom home built. I'm just a tad concerned that I went overboard on the design as far as size. The footprint for the house is nearly 4,400 sq ft, with a total living space of about 3,300 sq ft. Indeed, it will be quite the bachelor pad. Well, it will be a bachelor pad until my girlfriend and I get married and she moves in. Then it will become party central! I think. I dunno.

Please note, all guests must remove their shoes in the foyer before entering the main part of the house.


I find it odd, in a good way, that we've already broached the topic of how we would handle a marriage situation, since she owns 2 homes herself and now I'm building this one. Fortunately, we still have some time to figure out how we're going to handle that. Christi is selling her house and moving into the house her man recently built. But, it's 2 stories, and she doesn't really like 2 story houses, so they are discussing selling it and building a one story across town. Communication. It's all about communication, then finding common ground and working towards your shared goals and dreams. Without shared goals and dreams, a relationship can not last.

A George divided against itself, can not stand.

Be a winner, not a loser.
Living life means something different to each of us. To me, a major portion of living in this world involves being successful... being a winner and doing things to not only further my success, but also help those around me be successful themselves. After all, when you are winning, life is better, isn't it?

Today I received an email that contained some interesting points... If we could just get everyone to do #17:

  1. Give people more than they expect and do it cheerfully.
  2. Marry a man/woman you love to talk to. As you get older, their
    conversational skills will be as important as any other.
  3. Don't believe all you hear, spend all you have or sleep all you want.
  4. When you say, "I love you," mean it.
  5. When you say, "I'm sorry," look the person in the eye.
  6. Be engaged at least six months before you get married.
  7. Believe in love at first sight.
  8. Never laugh at anyone's dream. People who don't have dreams don't
    have much.
  9. Love deeply and passionately. You might get hurt but it's the only
    way to live life completely.
  10. In disagreements, fight fairly. No name calling.
  11. Don't judge people by their relatives.
  12. Talk slowly but think quickly.
  13. When someone asks you a question you don't want to answer, smile
    and ask, "Why do you want to know?"
  14. Remember that great love and great achievements involve great risk.
  15. Say "bless you" when you hear someone sneeze.
  16. When you lose, don't lose the lesson.
  17. Remember the three R's: Respect for self; Respect for others; and responsibility for all your actions.
  18. Don't let a little dispute injure a great friendship.
  19. When you realize you've made a mistake, take immediate steps to correct it.
  20. Smile when picking up the phone. The caller will hear it in your voice.
  21. Spend some time alone.

Pull The Frog Out Of The Boiling Water
And throw him back in. I have not personally had cable/satellite television in over 3 years. In the past 30 days, I've watched more television than I have in the previous 3 years, and my friends will testify that is not an exaggeration. When you work 60-70 hours a week at two jobs, and play in two bands and write music, it doesn't leave much time for tv.

By removing myself from the "entertainment" environment for such a long time, and now being re-exposed to cable, I am a little disturbed at the levels of violence, sex, and drama that are being flooded into the typical American household. It's no wonder there are so many blithering idiots these days. The amount of trash on TV is astounding.

My girlfriend's daughter loves the Disney channel. I didn't even know there was such a channel. The other day, I realized I have a problem with the types of clothes the girls wear on that channel. I don't know what shows we were watching, but there is no way, I'd let my 10 or 12 year old daughter wear skirts like what I saw on that show. Highly inappropriate attire. Maybe I'm just old-fashioned, but it sure seems like over sexualization of young girls to me. Disturbing indeed.

Tuesday, May 16, 2006

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Ambulance at Burger King, and I am waiting in a long line again. It's not my day. At least I'm not the guy in the ambulance... Maybe I shouldn't be eating here so much... Am I getting fat? Should I

diet? Eat more veggies?

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"No man will ever take care of me!!"

This past Friday was our first road trip.

How'd it go? I would have to say it went quite well from my viewpoint... all except for dinner. I could be mistaken, but I think God might be telling me, "Ok you fool, I've given you an awesome woman who is a great cook. Stop eating out so much and spend my money better." I think this because, 3 times in the past week I've picked out a restaurant I've enjoyed eating at, all 3 times have had serious kitchen misfires. (Sunday night, she cooked for J-mo and I... roast... ummmm ummmm delicious! Every man should be so blessed!)

We were leaving Shane and Melody's. He made mention of something about how Jawana is dating me now and is set for life. She proclaimed, "No man will ever take care of me!" That concerned me as to what that meant exactly because it sounded like some kind of femi-nazi talk, and to this point in our relationship I had not gathered that she was a femi-nazi. I think I treat my girlfriend with respect and find myself placing significant value in her opinions and thoughts when she expresses them to me.

The more she explained what she meant, the more I was just like, "Thank you God." It's awesome knowing she wants to contribute to the household, not only as a wife and mother, but provide financial income as well. She is such a hard worker, I really admire that in her. It's not like she just wants to get married, make babies, and then lay around the house all day and watch tv and not do anything. She wants to make her contribution to the household in a real and tangible way. Not that, raising the kids isn't a tangible thing. But, you know what I mean?
"I feel like I should contribute financially to the household. If you don't want me to work full time, I would at least like to work 2 years after we got married and bank my salary and live on your salary." .. in essence creating a large emergency fund.

Good Lord, I am the luckiest guy in the world. To have a girlfriend who understands these financial concepts that lead to success just adds to the fact that she is an amazing woman. She makes me so happy!

Sunday, May 14, 2006

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Saturday, May 13, 2006

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Friday, May 12, 2006

Thank God For September 11, 2001

The only good soldier is a dead soldier
Thank God for improvised explosive devices that kill American troops

Yesterday on the way home from work, Sean Hannity had some religious freaks on his show who were claiming that the reason 9-11 happened was because of the immorality of America and it was God's way of punishing us. This group from Westborough Baptist Church, goes to the funerals of American soldiers and holds up signs and sings chants with the aforementioned slogans. Now, last night Jawana and I had a talk about things that make me mad, and at the time the only thing I could come up with was tailgaters… I had forgotten about this… but this makes me mad: People who twist and distort religion to support absolutely insane beliefs. What is wrong with people? The other things that I could lump into the "make me mad category" would be (1) Those who think they are entitled to something when they are not (ie illegal aliens) (2) People who are lazy (3) People who repeatedly make stupid decisions.

Internet Sex offenders
So we're sitting back watching Dateline NBC on her massive 62" HDTV (and contrary to what Jeff says, I'm not dating her just because she had a 62" HDTV) , and they are doing a story on internet child sex freaks. They've got video of these fat 40 and 50 year old men going into houses to have sex with 14 year old girls. Hello. That is so wrong in every imaginable way possible. What in the world is wrong with people? Sickos. What was insane was, how non-chalantly the perpetrators were acting about it all. It was as if it they were like, "I have sex with underage girls all the time, it's no big deal." Good Lord man, get a girlfriend who is your age. Don't be such a freak. I guess now they won't be able to get any girlfriends, only boyfriends since they're going to be locked up in prison for a while.

So, this is what it's like
At times over the years, in the back of my mind, I've been a little concerned that I was too focused on my career and education. Indeed, I was spending every waking hour working on something: either my day job, or intently studying audio/video production and graphic design for my side business. The rewards from all that hard work are definitely paying off. However, the one key area, which I now clearly see that I was definitely missing, was someone special to share my life with. And now, it appears that I have found that important piece of the puzzle. She is the most amazing girl I've dated. When you consider that we've spent 27 of the past 28 days together, it's really like we've been dating for 5 or 6 months. We're on the accelerated dating plan, if you know what I mean. Hmmm I'm not even sure what I mean.

Your Body Is A Wonderland & the Ultimate Sex Guide
The past 2 Sundays at church we've been having a fairly open discussion about sex. One of the songs we did for the praise and worship set list was this song by John Mayer. I think the crowd was a little surprised as we played it, "This isn't a song about Jesus!" But, it's a song about love, and that's part of the message, so it fit quite well in the context of the study. Dave was talking about how the Song of Solomon makes this pop song seem like a Disney product. I would have to agree. I didn't realize the Bible gave such graphic and clear explanations on sex. Take a few minutes and listen to the message here, you'll be entertained and informed. You can't help but wonder, if more people read this particular part of the Bible, we might see significantly fewer problems in people's relationships with the one they love. (along with the 4 key areas I discussed last week)

Mission Impossible
No, I'm not talking about what would once be described as my search in finding a girlfriend. I'm talking about the new Tom Cruise movie that just opened up. The industry is reporting lackluster earnings for the movie over the opening weekend. Do you think it may be related to Tom's recent actions of insanity on Oprah and Good Morning America….plus the whole scientology thing. I still can't believe that women are not allowed to make a single sound during childbirth because it may adversely affect the child. Insanity indeed. I personally would have a very difficult time watching the movie, now that I am aware of his ulterior motives and constant propaganda pushing. I just don't think I could get into his character with those things running through my head. You know?

There is nothing like
a good home cooked meal. As a bachelor I eat out a lot. Not because I don't know how to cook, but rather because, it is difficult to cook for just one person. You know what I'm saying? Ok, so I just lied. I can't cook at all. But that doesn't change the fact that it's difficult to prepare meals for a single person. Right? Sunday afternoon we made the dreaded trip to Hell On Earth, Wal-Mart, to do some shopping and pick up some pork chops for dinner because she wanted to cook. That sounded like an awesome idea to me, since I eat out 99.9% of the time. Once again, she didn't disappoint and whipped up a fabulous dinner for us as I helped her daughter assemble some kind of whacked out pseudo lego castle thing as shown in the picture below.

Speaking of Wal-Mart, if you're looking for a job, get a job at COSTCO. COSTCO is the competitor to Sam's Club. Saturday, Clark Howard was talking how the average checker-outer person makes $40,000/year (after 4-years). That's not bad for sitting at the end of a conveyor and scanning items into a computer and bagging them up for people. Not only that, but they actually treat their employees with respect, and you can tell when you go in the store that COSTCO has a superior business plan and working environment than Sam's. Employees are happy. Not disgruntled like pretty much every Wal-Mart employee I've ever seen in my life. Even the freakin' greeters aren't happy at Wal-Mart.

Everything happens for a reason.
Do you believe that? I'm starting to believe it. Driving back from lunch, I thought of all the previous relationships I've been in, and how none of them have worked out for whatever reason. Now, here I am in this one and am finding it is unlike anything I've ever experienced before. She is just so amazing and I can't help but believe that God is the one who has brought us together… through MySpace. It was God and Tom I tell ya'. LOL We sort of had a discussion last night about religion. As you probably saw, it is one of the 4 items on the list of things couples must agree on in order to have a successful marriage. As I tried to explain last night, we are both Christians and are on a path to learn and grow in our faith, together. And, I think that is really awesome. She is Baptist. I attend a multi-denominational church. But, I think we are on the same page from an overall religion standpoint in that God sent his son to die on the cross and forgave us of our sins if we believe in Jesus and repent of our sins. Believe me, I'm thankful for that grace and mercy.

Does Money Mean Anything To You?
If you've known me for any length of time, you are well aware of my stance on personal finance: Cash only, buy used cars, and never pay retail for anything. Last night my girlfriend said that material things did not matter to her. Which of course, I agree with because they don't mean anything to me either. I'm not out to impress anyone, and don't really care what anyone else thinks about -stuff- . But, then she said something to the effect of money not mattering to her either. Imagine me slamming on the brakes, because that's essentially what I did in my head. I didn't bring it up, but probably should have asked for clarification on that. Of course money isn't everything, but it sure is nice to have. I mean that from an overall family (or individual) perspective. Because, when you have money, I find one tends to have fewer problems. For me, it all comes back to being able to provide a better life for my kids than what I had growing up. My parents were very poor, but sacrificed immensely to provide me with things I didn't really need in retrospect. But hey, I was a stupid kid who was all caught up with having to have the latest and greatest toys. Now when I look back, I wish they would have put that money in mutual funds or some other investment vehicle. As a couple we are doing well financially. When you consider the average annual household income is $40,000, indeed we have been blessed immensely. I can't help but think back to the Bible where it talks about being a good steward of God's money (because it's all his, we just manage it for him), and the better we manage what he gives us, the more he will bless us. It may sound crazy, but I can literally see that, as I've become smarter in handling my personal finances and changed my views on material possessions in the past 5 or 6 years. If it wasn't for Dave Ramsey and Clark Howard, I'm fairly confident I wouldn't be in the situation I find myself in today. Speaking of situations…

Is he acting differently?
Many have commented that I've been acting differently recently. I wasn't sure how to break the news. (Although several of you are already aware) So, I'll just come right out with it. It has happened. Indeed, my life will be forever changed on or about Dec 1, 2006. We're 2 months into it, and have 7 months to go. (waves, bows, as spotlights shine on me and the crowd cheers) Thank you. Thank you very much. I know many thought it would never happen (including me sometimes. LOL), but patience has paid off in the best way possible. Am I nervous? Yes. Am I excited? Incredibly. At this point, the final piece of the puzzle is to get married. I guess the process is reversed. Usually you get married first don't you? But whatever. It's all good. So there, now everyone knows.

... and this has been a week's worth of posts in one day.

Hoot Hoot

Monday, May 08, 2006

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Jawana hooked me up with a 12 pack of Sunkist, little debbie snacks, and granola bars yesterday for my stash at work. Thanks honey!

Sunday, May 07, 2006

A Picture Share!

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170 pieces & 30 minutes to assemble the Fire and Ice Dragons Portal of Fire. The box says ages 8+ but the instruction book is like trying to read an Adobe manual from 5 years ago.

Wednesday, May 03, 2006

No candy?

I recently heard that Alabama schools don't celebrate Halloween any more. I'm talking, the kids aren't allowed to eat candy. They can dress up, but they can't eat candy. They have to bring like healthy fruit snacks and granola bars.

Hello? The whole point of Halloween is getting to eat a giant punch bowl of candy. Not a giant punch bowl of Quaker Oats reduced fat granola bars and Yoplat yogurt.

Apparently, statistics indicate that Alabama has the fattest Fatty McFatterson's in the United States, so there is grave concern over the situation here in the south.

I'm thinking, it's the parents who need to get their kids of their fat butts and out into the yard to play ball and stuff. Turn off the Xbox 360 and Internet and make 'em get outside. Especially now, it's summertime for the love of Pete.

On a side note, this morning I read on Yahoo News where the soda manufacturers have agreed to remove drink vending machines from schools. I do see that as a good thing, becaue I know when I drink Mountain Dews, Dr. Peppers, and Sunkists... and don't work out for even a couple days, my pants don't fit. Seriously.

Anyways, it's Halloween people. Once a year. Let the kids eat some junk food.

Tuesday, May 02, 2006

The Impact of Illegal Aliens on the US Economy.

I didn't see any effect whatsoever. Did you?

So, you know what? Away with thee. If they are here illegally, send 'em back. Because, all they are doing is causing a severe drain on society. They aren't helping this country in any way.

Here in North Alabama there really weren't any significant turnouts to any "protests." I did hear some shops out in CA were closed for the day. Big whoop. You know what that should tell you? It should tell you not to shop there, because they are against America and what it stands for.

The situation is very simple. These illegal aliens don't respect our laws and they choose to break them. Thus, they are all criminals. They have no rights. They are not entitled to anything.

One of the supporters was proclaiming yesterday, "I want this to be the best democracy in the world." See right there we have a problem. Because, America is not a democracy. We are a republic. We are not governed by mob rule for the love of Pete.

I gotta go find my duct tape.

What is your name?
I'm sitting at my desk this morning reviewing some work and my phone rings. I have caller ID at work and the name that pops up appears to be a random assortment of letters… a lot of consonants in a row, and even maybe even the letter O with a line through it. I answer the phone and the guy on the other end says, "This is Ragu"… and I'm thinking, "Like the meatball sauce?"

I'll give him credit though, he attempted to speak some sort of broken fragmented English. Ever since this whole Illegal Alien topic has come up, I find myself looking at every Hispanic person and wondering, "Is he/she here illegally?" I just want to go up and ask them, "Can I see your green card?"

On Fridays my supervisor, former supervisor, and I eat lunch at a Mexican restaurant. I so wanted to run in there, flash a badge, and say, "INS… nobody move. Let me see your green cards!" just to see how many people ran out the door.

Oh yeah, I killed it
So I'm sitting on the couch tonight. My girlfriend comes back in from outside and sits beside me. We're talking and the next thing we know there is this loud buzzing sound (please, minds out of the gutter. I'm not even sure what I'm talking about) and this like incredibly large flying bug shoots across and up towards the room.

As if by a miracle, I didn't utter any profanities. I think. I'm not sure exactly. I don't really remember.

She didn't have like a fly swatter or anything to hit it with, so I found an empty paper towel spool and commenced to swatting at it with that. It took me a few tries, but on about the 5th one, "WHACK". I hit that thing and it went clear across the room and splattered all over her wall. (Sorry honey.) We could have used some of that "Crime Scene, Do Not Cross" tape.

Fun.

This probably isn't smart
But it's now 11 PM and I just finished drinking a Mountain Dew. After eating pizza at Pizza Hut (Kids eat free on Tuesday nights... I learned tonight), I realized I was thirsty when I got home.

Ok, I'm going to try and go to sleep.

Have a good rest of the week you guys and gals.

A Picture Share!

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Um no, winning makes you a winner. Not winning makes you a loser.

Monday, May 01, 2006

It looks to me like,

I must be the luckiest guy on the planet.

On my way back from lunch with my girlfriend today, I kept thinking just how blessed I am to have met her. Last night, she cooked a most fabulous dinner and even thought of me, and got my favorite Caesar salad. How sweet is that? The best part was the soft and chewy chocolate chip cookies that she baked for dessert! I can't even recall the last time I had home baked chocolate chip cookies. I'm tellin' ya' she's a great girl.

Many of you who know me, can attest (as she proclaimed last night before dinner to the other guests), "Kyle doesn't like kids." But, that's not entirely true. Her daughter is so well behaved that it makes it easy for me to be around her. She's not all bouncing off the walls and such. Those would be kids I have problems with. She's a good kid. Smart kid. Athletic kid. Which is cool.

When I got back to the office, one of the ladies from upstairs stopped and asked me how the new job was going. Of course, it's going great and I really enjoy it. This afternoon I had a meeting with our Division Chief was informed that I would be managing two giant pots of money within our division for my team. He made reference to not being able to get promoted to the next level without having budget experience. So, apparently they must believe that I can do a good job with money (although, I don't know where they would get that idea. haha). It's very cool to see that they think that I am capable of becoming a DB4 (GS 14-15 equiv) in the next couple of years.

When I sit back and see this awesome girl, a great job, my family, and friends... I know, I am the luckiest guy in the world.

All I need to do now is move out of my parents house. One day, it'll happen. Probably. Maybe. I think. I dunno. We'll see. I've got a couple more years.

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When I got to work today, Sara had a special package for me. Awesome. All those warning stickers make it appear to be something hazardous. But. It's not.
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